It has been said that: Conditional love says: “I have got to find a way to stop all things that make me feel so bad.” You go about your day thinking, worrying and stressing about those things that make you feel bad – how can I fix them? What can I do?
Then you have: Unconditional love which says: “I cannot control those conditions, but I can control the direction of my thought. And the direction of thought is all I need to control how I feel.”
BOOM – you’ve got it!
Once you get a handle on this concept you are finally free. Free from trauma, free from disaster, free from all those things that make you feel terrible.
You get from this moment forward to determine HOW you will react to LIFE! You can see challenges immediately as opportunities – instead of downward spiraling into frustration and despair. You can see arguments as a means to have the chance to create more clarity with your communication and understanding. You can see the loss of a job as the opportunity to work toward something better.
We know you “get this” stuff. We just want this info. to serve as a gentle reminder to always focus on the good – it’s there, always – sometimes you just have to look a little harder.
This is such a great time of the year to focus on Gratitude. As you practice it more and more – you create momentum – momentum that will carry you through the hustle and bustle of all the holidays!
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